Friday, June 25, 2010

I want to b happy in my life. and i don think that m asking for anything that i dont deserve. Every human being has the right to be happy. but are we really happy i ask this question to myself always but sad everytime i find this answer as NO. Why? Infact no one in this world can say that he or she is happy in real sense. watching a comedy serial for half an hour definitely makes you feel light but not for long time.
Whats the definition for "HAPPY"? I dont know. BUt what i know is that if you are searching happiness for yourself in other people then you cannot be happy becoz if you do so then you are giving the control of your life in someone's hand, and that is not at all correct. You prepared some good dish and now you want it to be appreciated, but when it is criticised then you are unhappy, you whole heartedly did some work but then your boss dint appreciated it u again go unhappy. Do you think you are doing justice with yourself? Absolutely no. You prepared meal, you are satisfied, you finished the work with full dedication , you are satisfied then why to depend on others. If you are satisfied then thats the most important thing that matters. Sometimes it is fine, because some criticism is good which is known as Constructive criticism but that also has a limit. All time criticism is not good as it creates a negative impact.
So, live your life your own way, dont be verryyyy... happy if someone appreciates you becoz when u will be criticised by that person you will be hurt.

Thursday, June 24, 2010

I have heard that everything that happens has a reason behind it, what we think, what we say, what we do, all have something which decides that why that thing is happening which is then followed by deep analysis raising number of questions about how, what, why, where leading to BIG "?" for our day to day life. This is the human nature.
I once read in a magazine that if you want emotional wellness in your life then you have to be the most adaptable to change. Obviously you will not be in your comfort zone all the time. Circumstances, time, people everything will keep on changing. It is not necesary that people around you will always like you, love you, they may they maynot its their choice afterall, you cant control everything, similarly you may/maynot like them as well. What matters is your attitude towards everything. Expecting that no one will harm you becoz you are nice is like expecting that Lion in front of you will not eat you because you are a vegetarian ".
When you stop finding reasons for everything that happens you can stop making your life complicated and can live your life in stress free way. So i would like to say one thing that