I have heard that everything that happens has a reason behind it, what we think, what we say, what we do, all have something which decides that why that thing is happening which is then followed by deep analysis raising number of questions about how, what, why, where leading to BIG "?" for our day to day life. This is the human nature.
I once read in a magazine that if you want emotional wellness in your life then you have to be the most adaptable to change. Obviously you will not be in your comfort zone all the time. Circumstances, time, people everything will keep on changing. It is not necesary that people around you will always like you, love you, they may they maynot its their choice afterall, you cant control everything, similarly you may/maynot like them as well. What matters is your attitude towards everything. Expecting that no one will harm you becoz you are nice is like expecting that Lion in front of you will not eat you because you are a vegetarian ".
When you stop finding reasons for everything that happens you can stop making your life complicated and can live your life in stress free way. So i would like to say one thing that
"LIFE IS SIMPLE BUT NOT EASY, SO DONT TRY TO UNDERSTAND IT JUST LIVE IT"