Friday, June 25, 2010

I want to b happy in my life. and i don think that m asking for anything that i dont deserve. Every human being has the right to be happy. but are we really happy i ask this question to myself always but sad everytime i find this answer as NO. Why? Infact no one in this world can say that he or she is happy in real sense. watching a comedy serial for half an hour definitely makes you feel light but not for long time.
Whats the definition for "HAPPY"? I dont know. BUt what i know is that if you are searching happiness for yourself in other people then you cannot be happy becoz if you do so then you are giving the control of your life in someone's hand, and that is not at all correct. You prepared some good dish and now you want it to be appreciated, but when it is criticised then you are unhappy, you whole heartedly did some work but then your boss dint appreciated it u again go unhappy. Do you think you are doing justice with yourself? Absolutely no. You prepared meal, you are satisfied, you finished the work with full dedication , you are satisfied then why to depend on others. If you are satisfied then thats the most important thing that matters. Sometimes it is fine, because some criticism is good which is known as Constructive criticism but that also has a limit. All time criticism is not good as it creates a negative impact.
So, live your life your own way, dont be verryyyy... happy if someone appreciates you becoz when u will be criticised by that person you will be hurt.

No comments:

Post a Comment